Do you suspect your spouse is cheating?
Here are the top 10 questions to ask yourself.
Change in Physical Appearance?
- Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer, losing weight etc.
- Unusual Spending Habits
- Buying new underwear or lingerie
Is your Spouse getting caught lying?
- Lying to cover their tracks
- Always putting the blame on you
Receiving hang up phone calls?
- Unanswered Calls
- The paramour calling your house to speak with your spouse.
- Deletes all incoming phone calls from the caller ID
Hiding the cell/house phone bill?
- The #1 way to find out who the lover is.
New sexual techniques?
- Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.
Working a lot of overtime?
- Enabling them to meet their lover after work.
Unaccountable Time Throughout the day?
- (This is the time frame to conduct surveillance.)
Mood Swings?
- Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house
- Saying "I need my space"
- Becoming very defensive
- Change in T.V., movie or music preference
Excessive use of the Internet?
- Deletes all incoming e-mails when they use to accumulate
- Spending time in internet chat rooms
Intuition (gut feeling)?
- Something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem “when in doubt check them out”.
The telltale sign of a cheating spouse?
Having to ask that question in the first place.
Other physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair is lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, or secretion stains on their underwear. You can also check their wallets and/or the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, Viagra, etc.
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